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My relationship with God has been suffering lately. I feel distant, as if God isn’t within arms reach anymore.
An article from Changing the Face of Christianity listed three ways why one would feel disconnected from God and two are as follows:
- We treat God the same way Aladdin treats the Genie. Calling on Him only when we need something.
- We are too busy for God.
I’m really picky with devotional books. Not only do they have to have content that stirs passion for Christ inside me, I also do judge devotional books by their covers. The last devotional I received was great on the inside, but the pages were stiff and I had to press down on them to make them stay. The binding creaked as I opened it, the fake leather squeaking as well.
My recent manuscript, which is waiting to be published, is literally part of my heart and soul. I opened up a lot, revealing just a snippet of memories of abuse dispute my mind’s protest. It felt good to get it all out there, but also, extremely frightening.
My personal time with the Lord looked a little differently before I became a mom.
As a freelancer and student, I woke up around 9am, ate breakfast, turned Chris Tomlin on low, and opened my Bible in the silence of my apartment. I’d find myself a little distracted and sometimes I’d cut my devotional short in favor of responding to emails or turning on Netflix for just one episode of The Office.
To end of the day, my husband and I would have couples’ prayer and devotional time.
My Present Reality
Now, just a few years later, I wake up to the sound of my 2-year-old son yelling, “Mama!”
Hi friends! If you didn’t know, I’m running 200 miles for domestic violence awareness & I’m sharing my first official update today.
I’ve been advocating against domestic violence since 2015, a cause close to my heart due to the struggles I endured through childhood. In 2017, when my mom needed help leaving my abusive father, the local shelter, Friends Inc, went above and beyond to help her heal.
I started this #Running4Her challenge to not only thank Friends Inc. for their services to the people within my community by raising money for them, but I also wanted to use this as an opportunity to bring awareness for this epidemic.
Domestic violence can take the form of physical, emotional, financial, and sexual abuse. 5 million children are exposed to domestic violence per year, 85% of domestic violence victims are female, 2,141 women were murdered last year by a current or former partner (for comparison, 2,996 people died in the WTC – 9/11 attack), (See more statistics here or here)
The bitter cold weather and our recent snow day has impacted my ability to do a few runs. Given winter won’t be over for several weeks, I’ll be getting a gym membership in the next few days so I can run some of these miles inside. Until then, if you have any brand recommendations to stay warm, I’d love to hear them.
As of today, I’ve logged 11 miles & look forward to seeing that number increase once I start running indoors on cold days.
The most exciting news I can share in my running update is that two local news channels contacted me about my run. I’m not in love with the idea of being in front of the camera (or running for all of Southeastern Wisconsin to see on the 5 o’clock news), but it’s great exposure, which is what my main goal is in this challenge.
Today, the biggest milestone I want to celebrate is the fact that I have several friends and family who have decided to support #Running4Her by running with me. In their own time, my mother, sister-in-law, and a few friends have decided to tally their own miles run. As they do this, they have started raising awareness on social media and collecting donations.
If you’d like to donate running miles yourself, you’re more than welcome to join in…even if you live in another state.
As of today, we’ve gotten $630 in donation pledges & a combined team total of 23 miles.
During the month of February, I hope to get at least 20 miles in, but hopefully more. I’m also looking into sponsorships for posters for the local Hartford businesses to hang up. I was considering ordering t-shirts as well, but I’m starting to get a little overwhelmed with how large #Running4Her has gotten.
Ways to Support
- Write a check payable to “Friends Inc.” (memo, #Running4Her) & mail to:
FRIENDS, Inc. PO Box 117 West Bend, WI 53095
- Donate via Paypal by clicking here or by visiting the Friends Inc. website. (add #running4her to the note before submitting)
- Most shelters like Friends Inc rely on wish list fulfillment, like shampoo, clothes, diapers, and toilet paper. Click here see what there current need is. Wish List items may be dropped off at Salon Effervescence (55 E Sumner St, Hartford, WI 53027)
- Raise awareness of domestic violence by sharing #Running4Her on social media.
- Donate your time to Friends Inc. – Volunteer as a Sexual Assault Victim Advocate, babysitter, structured childcare, or grocery shopper. (if you are not in the area, click here to find a local women’s shelter closest to you)
- Join me in running! Log and share the hours run on your regular running route or treadmill. Feel free to raise money for Friends Inc. or the domestic violence charity of your choice.
Thank you for all of your love & support. Read about the specifics of my challenge HERE and subscribe to receive updates.
I LOVE resolutions! I love making goals, reaching them, and sharing them. Here is my resolutions for 2019!
Before I share my 2019 goals, I wanted to take a few moments to share with you all the resolutions I made for 2018 and whether or not I accomplished what I set out.
I’m continuing the Celebrating Phenomenal Women series with Hope Zvara! I am honored to introduce you all to this phenomenal woman!
Hope is creator of the HOPE Process (Helping Other Purposefully Excel). She does so by inspiring others with what she calls her “yoga tool box”. On and off the mat you will find her teaching, inspiring, and breaking down lifestyle changes and making them adaptable for everyone. Over the past 17 years, Hope has opened a yoga studio (Copper Tree Yoga & Wellness Studio), ran teacher training’s and now taken her yoga tool box, life experiences and inspiration off the mat to listeners world wide.